If you have a "friend" you're suddenly not seeing as much of as you would like, or your txts are suddenly not being returned you may want to check yourself. Here are my 4 top reasons for ducking under the friend-dar:
a.) Nefarious intentions. Yours and/or mine. Enough said?
b.) You have personal drama I don't wish to be caught up in.
c.) You kept something from me that impacts my life and I had to find out about it from somebody else. This makes you a liar and liars make crappy friends. We call those "acquaintances" on my planet.
d.) You insist on spending your time around people who suck, literally; your life, your finances, your time, etc. You could realize they're dragging you down, but you don't. Instead, you make excuses for why you refuse to move on/grow up/set some sort of personal goals. That makes me sad for you, but pity is another one of those things I don't really have time for.
If you read this blog, you know I occasionally have a good reason to fly under the radar these days. (Stalkers are hard to shake and John, from Gabon's barely english txts get old!) I have realized that the less I am around on the public circuit, the less I say about my general life situation the more it leads to speculation and neighbors randomly dropping by to "check on me" (or should I say "check on US" now that I'm no longer single?) Look, if I wanted you to be in on the goings-on, I'd invite you to dinner. Have you received a dinner/brunch/drinks/dog-walking invitation recently? Congratulations, you do not suck entirely as a human being. I see some redeeming value to your existence on my planet.
Yes, you heard correctly. MY planet.
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